Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Friday, February 3, 2012
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
Jangan Gaduh
Jangan Melampau Jika Bertelingkah, Itu Dibenci Allah
Oleh Mohamad Abdul Kadir bin Sahak
Oleh Mohamad Abdul Kadir bin Sahak
Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w, “Manusia yang paling Allah benci ialah yang berkeras kepala dalam perbalahan.” (Riwayat al-Bukhari dan Muslim)
Cuba memuhasabah diri sendiri dan melihat kepada perjalanan masyarakat Islam. Dalam hadis ini Nabi s.a.w memberitahu kita bahawa Allah teramat benci manusia yang apabila berbalah, dia melampaui batas. Menolak apa yang benar hanya semata ingin menegakkan hujah yang dia sendiri tahu telah tersasar dari kebenaran. Berkeras kepala dengan hujah sendiri lalu berusaha menegakkan benang yang basah.
Allah amat benci orang yang seperti ini. Inilah juga tabiat munafik yang disifat oleh al-Quran (maksudnya), “Dan di antara manusia ada mengkagumkan engkau tutur katanya mengenai hal kehidupan dunia, dan dia bersaksikan Allah (bersumpah dengan mengatakan bahawa Allah), padahal dia adalah orang yang amat keras permusuhannya (kepadamu Muhammad).” (Surah al-Baqarah: 204). Dalam hadis yang lain Nabi s.a.w menyebut ciri manusia munafik itu empat, salah satunya: “Apabila dia berbalah, dia jahat”. (Riwayat al-Bukhari dan Muslim). Maksudnya untuk menang dalam perbalahan, seorang munafik tidak kira apa pun caranya dia sanggup menyelewengkan fakta, menipu hakikat, mengelirukan orang ramai, menghalalkan cara dan apa sahaja watak sekalipun jahat akan digunakan dalam memenangkan diri. Inilah (sifat) seorang munafik. Inilah orang jahat. Inilah orang yang amat dibenci oleh Allah (orang munafik).
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
Saturday, January 14, 2012
Friday, January 13, 2012
What's on my table
This is what I put on my table & read it everyday
Berterima kasihlah pada orang yang telah...
MELUKAI HATI mu kerana dia telah membuat HATIMU KUAT...
MEMBOHONGI mu kerana dia membuat HIDUP mu semakin BIJAKSANA...
MEMBENCI mu kerana dia yang MENGASAH KETEGARAN mu...
Dan MENYAYANGI mu kerana itulah ANUGERAH TERINDAH dalam hidupmu..
MEMBOHONGI mu kerana dia membuat HIDUP mu semakin BIJAKSANA...
MEMBENCI mu kerana dia yang MENGASAH KETEGARAN mu...
Dan MENYAYANGI mu kerana itulah ANUGERAH TERINDAH dalam hidupmu..
Belajarlah BERSYUKUR walau KEKURANGAN
Belajarlah IKHLAS walau TAK RELA
Belajarlah TAAT walau BERATBelajarlah MEMAHAMI walau TAK SEHATI
Belajarlah SETIA walau BANYAK GODAANBelajarlah MEMBERI walau TAK SEBERAPA
Belajarlah MENGASIHI walau kau DISAKITI
Belajarlah TENANG walau kau sedang GELISAH
Belajarlah PERCAYA walaupun SUSAH
Percaya bahawa Allah SWT masih sanggup menolongmu...
Belajarlah IKHLAS walau TAK RELA
Belajarlah TAAT walau BERATBelajarlah MEMAHAMI walau TAK SEHATI
Belajarlah SETIA walau BANYAK GODAANBelajarlah MEMBERI walau TAK SEBERAPA
Belajarlah MENGASIHI walau kau DISAKITI
Belajarlah TENANG walau kau sedang GELISAH
Belajarlah PERCAYA walaupun SUSAH
Percaya bahawa Allah SWT masih sanggup menolongmu...
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
32 Ways to Make Someone Happy
1.Smile.(important! just smile)
2.Help them carry something.(if they carry food, aaaa boleh join sekaki)
3.Send a thank-you email.(sometimes, TQ is the hardest word to hear)
4.Call just to see how they’re doing.(sms also can)
5.Pick them flowers.(bunga tayar)
6.Cook them a nice meal.(this one better, food!)
7.Tell a joke and laugh your butts off.(not for 'sensitive' kind of person)
8.Clean.(?)
9.Write a love letter to a loved one.(or just simply sms sudah la)
10.Give them a cherished book.(?)
11.Bake cookies.(food! happy!)
12.Praise them publicly.(urghh..)
13.Thank them for a job well done.(TQ, hmmm)
14.Listen.(Be a good listener!)
15.Be there when they’re in need.(but when?)
16.Give a free hug.(my hug were always FOC)
17.Spend time with them, having fun.(if they want to....)
18.Do errands or chores for them.(hmmm)
19.Say I love you.(Said before.....Eu te amo)
20.Help them get ahead.(Always)
21.Be proud of them.(Always)
22.Babysit if they need it.(Owhhh......kuci kuci)
23.House sit if they need it.(If they....)
24.Buy them movie tickets.(Nice!)
25.Create a care package.(hoh)
26.Coffee. Mmmm.(Kopi Jantan?Radix?)
27.List the things you love about them.(Everything..)
28.Secretly leave them thank you notes.(Hurmmm..)
29.Give a back rub when appropriate.(hahahah)
30.Deliver a nice lunch to them when they’re having a rough day.(Food! I love food!)
31.Love them, completely.(COMPLETELY)
32.Be happy yourself.(IMPORTANT)
Percayalah, kita tak boleh membuat semua orang gembira namun kita tetap CUBA menggembirakan semua orang.
Saturday, November 19, 2011
Jika Aku begitu...amin
Jika engkau berbakti kepadanya, dia akan melindungi kamu;
Jika engkau rapatkan persahabatan dengannya, dia akan membalas balik persahabatan kamu;
Jika engkau memerlu pertolongan daripadanya, dia akan membantu kamu;
Jika engkau menghulurkan sesuatu kebaikan kepadanya, dia akan menerimanya dengan baik;
Jika dia mendapat sesuatu kebajikan (bantuan) daripada kamu, dia akan menghargai atau menyebut kebaikan kamu;
Jika dia melihat sesuatu yang tidak baik daripada kamu, dia akan menutupnya;
Jika engkau meminta bantuan daripadanya, dia akan mengusahakannya;
Jika engkau berdiam diri (kerana malu hendak meminta), dia akan menanyakan kesusahan kamu;
Jika datang sesuatu bencana menimpa dirimu, dia akan meringankan kesusahan kamu;
Jika engkau berkata kepadanya, nescaya dia akan membenarkan kamu;
Jika engkau merancangkan sesuatu, nescaya dia akan membantu kamu;
Jika kamu berdua berselisih faham, nescaya dia lebih senang mengalah untuk menjaga kepentingan persahabatan;
Dia membantumu menunaikan tanggungjawab serta melarang melakukan perkara buruk dan maksiat;
Dia mendorongmu mencapai kejayaan di dunia dan akhirat.
‘Teman yang paling baik adalah apabila kamu melihat wajahnya, kamu teringat akan Allah, mendengar kata-katanya menambahkan ilmu agama, melihat gerak-gerinya teringat mati..’
Monday, November 14, 2011
Saturday, November 12, 2011
The One That Got Away
Summer after high school when we first met
We make out in your Mustang to Radio head
And on my 18th birthday we got that chain tattoos
Used to steal your parents' liquor and climb to the roof
Talk about our future like we had a clue
Never plan that one day I'd be losing you
And in another life I would be your girl
We keep all our promises, be us against the world
And in other life I would make you stay
So I don't have to say you were the one that got away
The one that got away
I was dreaming you were my Johnny Cash
Never one, we got the other, we made a pact
Sometimes when I miss you, I put those records on, whoa
Someone said you had your tattoo removed
Saw you downtown singing the blues
It's time to face the music, I'm longer your muse
And in another life I would be your girl
We keep all our promises, be us against the world
And in another life, I would make you stay
So I don't have to say you were the one that got away
The one that got away
The one, the one, the one
The one that got away
All these money can't buy me a time machine, no
Can't replace you with a million rings, no
I should've told you what you meant to me, whoa
'Cause now I pay the price
In another life I would be your girl
We keep all our promises, be us against the world
And in another life, I would make you stay
So I don't have to say you were the one that got away
The one that got away
The one, the one, the one, the one
And in another life I would make you stay
So I don't have to say you were the one that got away
The one that got away
We make out in your Mustang to Radio head
And on my 18th birthday we got that chain tattoos
Used to steal your parents' liquor and climb to the roof
Talk about our future like we had a clue
Never plan that one day I'd be losing you
And in another life I would be your girl
We keep all our promises, be us against the world
And in other life I would make you stay
So I don't have to say you were the one that got away
The one that got away
I was dreaming you were my Johnny Cash
Never one, we got the other, we made a pact
Sometimes when I miss you, I put those records on, whoa
Someone said you had your tattoo removed
Saw you downtown singing the blues
It's time to face the music, I'm longer your muse
And in another life I would be your girl
We keep all our promises, be us against the world
And in another life, I would make you stay
So I don't have to say you were the one that got away
The one that got away
The one, the one, the one
The one that got away
All these money can't buy me a time machine, no
Can't replace you with a million rings, no
I should've told you what you meant to me, whoa
'Cause now I pay the price
In another life I would be your girl
We keep all our promises, be us against the world
And in another life, I would make you stay
So I don't have to say you were the one that got away
The one that got away
The one, the one, the one, the one
And in another life I would make you stay
So I don't have to say you were the one that got away
The one that got away
Saturday, November 5, 2011
Words To Describe Myself
" Sahabat bukan satu tapi beribu,
bukan sementara tapi selamanya
bukan untuk dimusuhi tapi disayangi
bukan untuk dilupai tapi diingati
bukan hanya di sini tapi di mana-mana
bukan setakat ini tapi hingga ke akhir hayat.."
Ku mohon ampun dan maaf jika selama ini ku tersalah bicara, terkasar sikap dan terlanjur bahasa. Ku ini hanya insan biasa dan insan biasa tak lari dari membuat kesilapan. Percayalah setiap gurauanku tiada membawa makna, hanya kata semata mata. Ku biasa ceria atau erti kata lainya ’Happy Go Lucky’. Maafkan aku
Salam Aidiladha
MRM
Thursday, October 27, 2011
3 Pintu & Aku
Setelah sekian lama aku di 'rumah' ini, baru ku sedar ada 3 pintu dalam hidup ku di'sini';
Pintu pertama
Pintu yang terbuka, kadang kala pintu ini mmg sukar utk aku temui. Aku sgt berharap agar byk pintu ini di'sini' namun harapanku pudar. Yg ada mungkin 'pintu2' lama yg sedia terbuka dan sedia menerima sesiapa yg ingin melaluinya. Mungkin itu hakikatnya
Pintu kedua
Pintu yang tertutup, pintu ini jarang2 ada kerna ianya bukan kelaziman. Ia tertutup kerna sifatnya yg mmg tak mahu menerima sesiapa memasukinya. Pintu ini kelam dan gelap
Pintu ketiga
Pintu yg kadangkala terbuka dan kadangkala tertutup. Pintu paling sedih dan sukar utk ku terima. Ia terbuka bila terasa perlu dan tertutup dgn sendirinya jika tiada kepentingan utk dibuka. Pintu ini menyebabkan aku sepi dan sendiri kerna ianya sukar utk ku mengerti dan ku PERCAYAI
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Monday, October 17, 2011
Sunday, October 16, 2011
Do you remember this?
The Road Not Taken
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference
Robert Frost
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